#Soulless eyes meaning full#

He has beautiful eyes, so bright you notice them from across a room.īut that night, when he attacked me, his eyes were black. My husband’s eyes are bright, light blue. The night my husband held me at gunpoint with a loaded hunting rifle, something terrifying happened. One occurrence to this day puts chills up my spine and tears in my eyes. Here’s a letter from a woman who was married to a male sociopath. I’ve only heard this about male sociopaths so far - if anyone has seen this in a female, please let me know. I’ve had several people tell me that when the sociopath was in a rage, his eyes turned totally black. Sometimes the best place to see it is in a photograph. In the Female Sociopath Survey, 57% of respondents agreed.īecause sociopaths can be so charming, exciting and magnetic, it can be difficult to spot this characteristic of lifeless eyes. In two Lovefraud surveys, I asked respondents if they agreed with this statement about their disordered romantic partners: “Sometimes, the individual’s eyes seemed to be lifeless.” In the Romantic Partner Survey, 60% of respondents agreed. When he wasn’t actively engaged in manipulating me or someone else, his eyes seemed to indicate that there was nobody home inside. This is what I sometimes saw with my ex-husband. I saw that she did this with everyone and could very easy manipulate others to her will. She could read me like a book, and manipulated me to get her desired reaction out of me. The stare was her studying my emotions and my chosen reactions to my emotions. I thought either she has an IQ in the four-digit range, or she has experience in this area before. I was floored at how quick she pick up on this change in my behavior and how it frustrated her attempts to provoke me to anger. My ex-wife picked up on this right away and said in frustration that I was unpredictable when angry: You used to yell, now you just blow it off. I chose one day to pick a different reaction when angry. My ex-wife would provoke me to anger with insults or other unkind words. Some got very quiet, some would leave and come back later when calmed down. I saw, however, that not everyone yelled when angry. My father when angry would raise his voice and yell, so I followed his example as an adult and as a father. Emotions are also amoral they are neither good nor evil, but how you choose to react to them makes you good or evil. Money is amoral it is neither good nor evil, but how people use it shows their heart is good or evil. But studying psychology, I found a third category: amoral or non-moral. I learned in church that everything was either good or evil, moral or immoral. Turns out she was studying me very closely. I would catch her staring at me at different times and wonder what she was doing.

#Soulless eyes meaning full#

At first it was over small things but eventually grew into full time hatred. The first three weeks were great, then for some unknown reason she started expressing her anger at me. She had two sons by two different men one was eight and the other was four. I saw the angry predator stare but I also saw other stares.īefore I started dating my wife I would catch her staring at me in church and I would think that this woman is interested in me, let’s go talk to her. It has been my experience with a sociopath ex-wife that there are different reasons behind the stare. Here’s a recent email from a man about his ex-wife: Many Lovefraud readers also mention the eyes of a sociopath and how the sociopaths stared at them. Read more: Everyday sociopaths - master manipulators who live all around us The stare So much so that it was all I could describe years later when I recalled “how we met.” - His eyes burned into my soul even though they were brown, and I didn’t like brown eyes! It was the most intense eye contact that I have ever experienced. Here’s how one woman described the moment she met the sociopath: Of the 1,352 survey respondents, 59% of them reported that their sociopathic partner engaged in intense eye contact. To gather information for the book, I conducted the Lovefraud Romantic Partners Survey. In my book, Red Flags of Love Fraudone of the 10 warning signs is intense eye contact. You may see this in one or more ways, such as: Intense eye contact If you’ve had any type of involvement with a sociopath, you may have noticed some weirdness about the person’s eyes. Only one aspect of their appearance may hint at their personality disorder: They can be male, female, all races, all religions, all ethnic groups, old, young, rich, poor, good-looking, homely. Sociopaths are hiding in all segments of society.